Introduce --dont-kill-backend option.

pg_repack needs to take an exclusive lock at the end of the
reorganization. If the lock cannot be taken after duration
--wait-timeout option specified and this option is true,
pg_repack gives up to repack a target table instead of
cancelling conflicting backend. False by default.

regress/expected/repack.out

@@ -387,3 +387,8 @@ ERROR: cannot repack specific table(s) in schema, use schema.table notation inst
 -- => ERROR
 \! pg_repack --dbname=contrib_regression --all --schema=test_schema1
 ERROR: cannot repack specific schema(s) in all databases
+--
+-- don't kill backend
+--
+\! pg_repack --dbname=contrib_regression --table=tbl_cluster --dont-kill-backend
+INFO: repacking table "tbl_cluster"